If you’ve decided to make a change for the better regarding your health and fitness then a lifestyle change is in order. Dieting and working out hard for a few months to look good on the beach in the summer is not a lifestyle change. An example of a lifestyle change would be to make a lifetime commitment to some sort of physical activity a few times a week, or to completely redefine your diet and eating habits. These types of changes take real dedication and determination. For some people this can be difficult, but certainly achievable. For other people changes like this only happen after a wakeup call such as a doctor saying lose weight or die.
I’ve known a few people that have had news like that from the doctor. One person I know that was over 300 pounds finally decided to have gastric bypass surgery done after the doctor told her she may not live long enough to see her kids grow up. I saw her several months after the surgery when she had lost over 100 pounds and looked like a completely different person. I’m not saying that surgery is a great thing but if you neglect your body then tough decisions like that will have to be made down the road. If a fortuneteller had told this girl 10 years previous that she would require surgery to reduce the size of her stomach unless she changed her lifestyle and diet then maybe things would have been different for her. What I’m trying to say is why not have better health, fitness, and lifestyle before getting to the point of needing surgery for a health related problem that was preventable.
To wrap up the last part of the healthy series blog here are a few suggestions for changing the final aspect of lifestyle. If you haven’t read part 1 and part 2 yet then be sure to check those out.
Be honest and open with yourself and others
Be honest with yourself about your weight, and don’t be afraid to talk about it with friends and family. The topic of weight is a touchy subject to most people. Women are especially sensitive about their weight, but they shouldn’t be. When you are too sensitive or afraid to deal with the subject of your weight you are really just hurting yourself. You will get more support from your internal network than you might think. Additionally by talking the talk you will be expected to walk the walk. For some people the support or expectations they get from others is all they need to get moving in the right direction.
If you are going to be your own boss make sure you are doing the job
Think of this example; kids can get into all kinds of trouble and danger if left unsupervised. That is why they need adults to oversee them. Adults can likewise get into trouble when suddenly they grow up and nobody is there to tell them what they should or shouldn’t do. Good upbringing and education go a long way but nobody can be completely prepared for adulthood. One good thing my mom did when I was a kid was limit my sister and I to one treat each per trip to the grocery store, which wasn’t that often. These days I’m my own boss and despite that early discipline it is still hard to leave the store with more food than treats. In fact my wife doesn’t like it when I shop because I buy so many random items that don’t add up to meals. I can only imagine how bad some people can be who are their own bosses but basically give themselves permission to do whatever they want. More problems can ensue if you decide to let someone else who isn’t qualified be your boss. By nature most people want to follow someone else’s lead because it’s just easier than making their own conscious decisions. That easiness can turn into laziness, complacency, and misguided trust in sources that are unreliable. Just because your coworkers eat a big mac for lunch everyday doesn’t mean you should too. If someone else is your boss then fire them and/or recommit yourself to being a better boss.
Don’t let society determine who you are
Our over-polite and politically correct society is increasingly sending out the message that it is ok to be overweight, or to “be comfortable with who you are”. That’s great in concept and certainly accurate in some regards, but when it is in context to body weight that statement really tells people is its ok if you are overweight and there is no need to change. When surrounded by so many people that have this carefree attitude it’s easy for anyone to get off track. If you want to be successful YOU have to take the initiative to make it happen. This means independent thinking, self discipline, and having a proactive attitude. Don’t let society influence who you are. Decide for yourself who and how you want to be, and then make it happen!
Tune out the media
Even more than society, media pre-programs us with misconceptions and all kinds of propaganda. Just because Subway’s 5 dollar foot-long sandwich is only 5 dollars and supposedly healthy that doesn’t mean it’s ok to eat the whole thing at once. I’ll admit Subway is better than most fast food, but that I just can’t get that annoying jingle in their commercial out of my head. It makes me want to spear the TV with a foot-long sandwich so I never have to hear it again! Unfortunately this is exactly what these advertisers want, a commercial that you will remember one way or another for a very long time. Because even worse than hating them is forgetting them or not knowing they are there at all. This is just one bad example of media influence. There are also magazines, actors and actresses, politicians, billboards; just all kinds of advertisements and images coming at us from all directions vying for our dollars and interest. It’s all so overwhelming that people start to forget who they are and just become vessels of popular society. Just as you have to be proactive with exercise and diet, be proactive with your mind. Turn off the TV and read, study, learn; basically decide to think for yourself again. You will have a more studious approach towards life and an overall healthier attitude, which translates into a better lifestyle.
Get enough sleep
This should be a no-brainer, but many people can’t seem to get this sleep thing right. Your body and mind need sleep to recuperate from the day’s activities, and if you are exercising you need more sleep than normal to rebuild your muscles. Some people do have sleep disorders, but others just sacrifice sleep to make up for lost time or because of a poor personal schedule. I’m a late night person myself so swing shift works well for me. I worked a very early AM shift with a brutal commute for a year, and that made my circadian rhythm go haywire. During that time I only averaged about 5 hours of sleep per night. I was always tired and even though my job was very active I gained weight from eating more than normal to try to make up for the lack of energy. Once I got a swing shift job that was closer to home I went back to sleeping 8 hours a night with a normal diet. Without even trying I lost almost 10 pounds in a month to get back to my typical weight around 170.
Lay off the booze
This is a tough one for many people, myself included. I like to enjoy a good microbrew or glass of wine now and then which has just become part of my lifestyle. In limited quantities this is no problem, and many studies show that it can indeed be healthy in some aspects. The problem is most people don’t or can’t limit themselves to just one or two drinks. When you drink excessively this hurts your health, motivation, budget, waistline, workout routine, and brain functionality. I’ve decided to take a serious layoff from booze in 2010 to see what effects it has on my lifestyle. Initially I planned to go dry for the entire year but with summer coming I decided 6 months is long enough. It’s been 5 months already and the only thing I miss about not drinking is the social aspect. I guess for me it has been a good experiment and will permanently change the way I think about drinking alcohol. I will likely be more conscious of how much and how often I drink just like I have been about the food I eat after going on the South Beach Diet some years ago. In fact one thing I learned from the South Beach Diet was that instead of drinking beer which is full of Maltrose (a form of sugar), or mixed drinks loaded with sugar, try wine. Vino is much healthier, full of antioxidants, and easier on your waistline. What you do in this department depends on your lifestyle, but limiting or cutting out the booze for a while can really contribute to your overall success in the area of health and diet.
Walk after eating
We learned about the effectiveness of this after traveling in Europe for 4 months. Although the portions were smaller we still ate well and usually had a beer or two with our meal because it was so good over there, and usually the cheapest beverage on the menu. We always walked after eating because other than taking the train it was the primary way of getting around so we really had no choice. After that trip I was down to almost 160 pounds which was the lightest I had been since my early 20’s. After putting some thought to this I came to the conclusion that your stomach really does a lot of work to digest food which naturally makes you tired, and after eating you feel somewhat bloated and full so naturally you want to just relax. If you go against this natural desire and do something mildly active like walking after eating then your food will settle easier and you won’t feel so lethargic.
If you can’t work out find another way to stay active
In the year 2000 I went snowboarding for the first time on a very icy day and ended up separating my shoulder. The doc said there was nothing he could do for me short of surgery which wasn’t necessary unless I was a professional athlete. He simply suggested taking an Advil whenever I participate in an activity like racquetball or weight lifting that involved my shoulder. For about 5 years I had to go light on the weights, and at times went for months without lifting but I still managed to keep in pretty decent shape doing other things. When I did work out I skipped the Advil (which will eat holes in your stomach) and just lived with the pain. Eventually I did have to quit playing racquetball because the pain was too much by the time I would finish a few games. Instead I got more involved in other activities like hiking and ironically snowboarding, which made up for what I missed in the gym. I’m the kind of person that just needs to stay active so I had to adjust my lifestyle to accommodate that need and I think that adjustment turned out to be a very good thing. The gym is a great way to get in shape, but to have a healthy active lifestyle you need other sources of exercise than lifting weights or running on a treadmill.
Make your goals dynamic to match your lifestyle
Don’t get so set on obtaining a certain goal that you fail altogether and lose your overall confidence. If you’re goal is to lose 100 pounds in order to get down to your high school weight, but you are only losing 1 pound per week, then you will likely get frustrated and eventually give up altogether. If you do see yourself getting frustrated then modify your goal to be more obtainable. Make it a goal of losing 25 pounds, and then once you do that try for another 25 pounds. Even if you only lose the initial 25, but manage to keep that weight off in the long term, then it’s still a winning scenario from where you started.
There are no shortcuts
Plastic surgery, liposuction, TV gimmicks, diet pills, steroids- forgedaboudit! Two wrongs don’t make a right. It amazes me what people will put themselves through to try to take a shortcut. Oftentimes the shortcut takes more effort than the normal and correct course of action. The bottom line is if you want to be fit and healthy you need to exercise and eat better; so go exercise and then cook a nice healthy meal- now repeat over and over again.
Listen to your body
In today’s modern society we’ve lost touch with nature and ourselves. Your body often tells you what it needs and when enough is enough, but we usually don’t listen. Make it a goal to have a harmonious relationship with your body so you can naturally know what is right and wrong when it comes to eating, exercise and sleep. Most people don’t want to take the time to prepare healthy meals, exercise, or get a good night of sleep, but this is really just an excuse. These are not things you make time for; it’s just something you incorporate into your lifestyle. You wouldn’t say you never have time to do laundry or pay bills would you? Of course not, you have to do those things so you just do them. Eating healthy, exercising, and sleeping should be the same way. That’s not to say that you won’t occasionally get off track, but that is ok as long as you get back on track before your body derails. Just remember losing weight and getting in shape isn’t something you do just to look good for the summer, it’s a lifetime commitment to a healthier body and mind.
Photo credit-Luke Maciejczyk
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